There are always “others” in our lives. There's us and there's them, the others. Those different from us. Those that don't fit into our idea of normal. They don't settle into our groups and aren't a part of the social structure as we understand it. They are the outcasts, the unwanted, the strange...and most often the bullied.
There are people who will never fit
into societal norms, until those norms are changed. Anyone who fits
into the LGBTI designations will be considered outcasts until we get
over the fact that they're different and embrace that as part of who
they are. They will never be allowed to fit in many places until we
can look at them without prejudice.
Those who are of a different race, a
different religion will be outcasts until we open our minds to the
possibilities of knowing people who are not like us. This goes for
any racial group looking at another racial group. White people are
not the only ones who show racial and religious prejudice.
Those who don't choose to hold a
regular job, who endeavor to create something different – the
artists, the writers, the entrepreneurs – are outcasts. They don't
do what society expects them to do so they are looked down upon. They
are pressured to “get real jobs”, to become what those around
them think is normal.
There are those who have fought for
their countries, their homes, and they are looked down on for that.
They are forgotten, ignored, and pushed to the side. They are treated
poorly and instead of being given the recognition for their actions
they are treated with derision.
The list goes on and on. As long as
society holds with its views of normal, there will always be
outcasts. Changing those views starts with us. We need to push back,
tell “society” that we won't tolerate people being marginalized
and treated less than everyone else because they're different.
Your comments about outcasts, you know they lead me to think about how even within many marginalized groups, there's a "normal." As someone in the LGBT community who is neither an L or G, I've felt plenty of "outsider status" even there.
ReplyDeleteIf you don't fit into the same niche that someone wants to put you in then you're going to get harassed. I've seen that in my own life.
DeleteThere's always an outcast among any group of outcasts. If there was a group of clones, there would still be one that the others all picked on.
ReplyDeleteYou'd think with clones that there wouldn't be given that they're all the same, but it may be that a personality can't be cloned and the one they pick on doesn't have a personality that fits with their own.
DeleteI think the category of mental illness is also one that causes judgment. You've done some very soulful posts on the subject.
ReplyDeleteIt does cause issues for those of us who have it. We are outcasts, sometimes even among our own family. It's hard to find somewhere that you're accepted in any sense of the word no matter who you are.
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